Dating many women once
To my surprise, I ended up really clicking with both women, and they both seem to like me as well.
We share a number of interests (though different common interests with each woman), and each are attractive, age-appropriate, and successful professionally.
I’ve watched her go through all of the phases I went through when I was freshly out of a long-term relationship: thinking about dating; dating; embarking on a dating freeze; swearing off dating forever, with and without a solemn oath; and trying on every state in between.
I’ve also noticed that she’s happiest when she’s dating a couple of people at once.
If a woman is dating more than one man at a time, she is not giving enough time or effort to finding out if she is truly compatible with any of them.
Women can try to make the argument that men date multiple women all the time, but men only do this when we are out to ‘play’ - we don’t do this when we are looking for ‘the one’.
Also, just because you are dating more than one man, does it automatically mean you are having sex with all of them? I am not promoting hoeing, just seeing what options there are.
I have been back on the dating scene for about two years now.
My question deals with the etiquette of online dating.
Is there such a thing as God having “the one” for you, and if so, what’s the use of dating? They would say things like “How do you know what you like and don’t like if you don’t date?